Reprogramming The Mind For Success

In the world of self help and development, there are two primary schools of thought relating to the creation of desires in our life.

One is that in order to get what you want you must focus on it as often as possible, and at the same time block out any opposing thoughts to your desire.

For instance, if you want to own a nice new house, you should affirm this intention as often as possible using things like pictures, affirmations (i.e. I am living in my dream home now), visualizations, writing down the goal and many other sorts of tools for the sole purpose of bombarding your sub conscious with the new desire.

To make it even more effective you should learn to add emotion to it, thereby creating a more intense realization that you already have it. At the same time any time doubts creep in suggesting that you can not have this desire you need to be aware that the thought is occurring and stop it in its tracks.

However the second school of thought is to make your intention clear to the universe, and then simply let it go. By letting go it means you basically do the opposite to the first school of thought, and that is you do not spend huge amounts of time and energy bombarding your sub conscious with your new desire.

When looking at these two schools of thought there seems to be a contradiction. How can one camp say you need to bombard your sub conscious and the other camp say you should not. The answer lies with one thing and one thing only, and that is your belief that the desire can happen.

This is extremely important because someone who needs to tell themselves something over and over again needs to do this because deep down they simply do not believe it is possible.

Think about it for a second. If you believed that a certain desire, experience, possession etc was very possible in your world, would you need to continuously tell yourself that? The answer is no. Think of it another way; a lot of things are possible in your life but have you achieved them all yet? No, simply because you haven’t had time, but that doesn’t make them impossible to you.

However once you get to goals that are larger than anything you’ve ever attained before there is an instant blockage in your system and the only way to remove this blockage is by force.

By force I mean you have to literally reprogram your beliefs and automatic thoughts. Automatic thoughts are what drive you daily and when someone lacks belief in what they can achieve their automatic thought processes match that belief. Using tools like the ones mentioned earlier, such as affirmations and pictures etc are all great at doing that.

So what is really at the core of achieving something is not the goal itself but rather the belief that you can actually attain it.

Reprogramming your mind then is a process of instilling the belief that you can attain something and removing any limiting beliefs.

If on the other hand you have faith in yourself and the process, then all you need to do is make your intention clear and let it go, knowing that in due time it will arrive.

What is essential in either process is removing any need to know ‘how’ it will come. If you keep asking yourself how something is going to come to you, you are simply reinforcing the belief that the goal is out of your reach.