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The Power Of Asking

Dean | December 15, 2008

I want to share a little story with you to show the power of asking, and how the process of asking sets in motion the organic systems within you that enable your subconscious to find the answers in the outside world.

I was having a deep conversation with my Mum because both she and Dad are going through a rough patch, (It is unfortunate with all the knowledge I am able to share with them, especially after their lotto ordeal, they are unwilling to take that extra step and break free form their comfort zone) and I explained that she spends her time merely hoping her way through the day, and gives up on her goals because she concerns herself with the ‘how’. To explain I told her my story of how I got an Ipod.

Recently I decided I wanted an Ipod. I have never owned one but I was increasingly finding myself in need of a tool to store mp3 files, and being the way I am, I simply asked for it. Before I go on, I need to explain that although I may pay for something, I do not like to go out and purchase something when I decide I want it; and the reason is simple…it takes the fun out of it. Most times what I want turns up or I am led to the item, but rarely, if at all do I pay anywhere near top dollar, or a price that one would pay if they simply went out and purchased it. Also, I am always curious and then in awe of how something shows up.

So, after I asked for an Ipod, I simply went about my normal business. Maybe 12 hours later, I was going through some finances and needed to check my credit card statement, and out of curiosity, I decided to look at my rewards points. At this time, I had completely forgotten about my request for an Ipod, however as soon as I clicked through to the rewards section, the very first image I saw (out of about 12 images) was of Ipod shuffles. Then I remembered my request, and thought ‘wow’, this is how I’m getting my Ipod, which I then did, having more than enough points to do so. My mum just sat in awe, not because of the Ipod, but because of the regularity of these sorts of events I share with her.

Another similar story occurred when I needed an image of a shiny dollar coin, and no where could I find one in the house, nor on the internet (which was very surprising). Three days later I was filling up the car and I could see an extremely shiny dollar coin maybe 10 metres away on the mat in front of the sliding doors to the service station. What was amazing were the number of people walking past it and over it, not one of them noticing it, yet there I was filling up and could see it clearly. Naturally, I picked it up, took it home and used it for my image.

I use these small examples (although I don’t see them as small) because I want you to understand the power of thought, and the power of your mind in finding solutions for you. I could just as easily use bigger examples but for many, such examples may only cause a sort of envy of the object or achievement, when what I am trying to explain is the power of the process itself. It doesn’t matter how big the question or desire is, the process is exactly the same, always. (What I will say though, it was this very process that enabled me to find my wife, and she was exactly what I asked for!)

To demonstrate, after I got the Ipod I told my son about the whole episode. He thought for a bit and then asked, ‘Dad, how can I get a credit card and will I be able to get reward points?’ I replied with ‘Son, you’re looking in the wrong direction. It wasn’t the credit card or the reward points that got me that Ipod, it was the process of me asking, my mind answering, and me having belief that the process works.’ And there lies the most important part…having the belief that the process works, and to do this means understanding the organic processes and systems within us all.

So my suggestion is for many, to work on understanding the way our brains work, and work on the belief that there is always a solution to a problem, an answer to a question, a ‘how’ to get something, that doesn’t require you to work out the ‘how’. If you have a desire for something, but you believe it is an achievement beyond you, work on the belief that the world always provides a way, if you just allow your mind to receive it. Examples would be ‘My mind always seeks the answers I need’, or ‘all my desires already exist’, or ‘I receive all solutions, desires, answers that I seek’. Just find a belief statement that flows for you.

If you concern yourself with the ‘how’, what you are effectively doing is stating that you do not believe in the process, and of course, if you do this, your subconscious has to respond by making you closed to opportunities, answers and solutions. It’s just doing its job.

To your success

Dean Whittingham

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